Moving to France is an exciting adventure, but everyday life may be more different than you expect. Beyond the paperwork and learning the language, there are many small cultural habits that can catch you by surprise.
Here are ten things I wish someone had told me before I moved to France.
1. Always Say Bonjour First
One of the first things you’ll notice is how important greetings are. Before asking a question, entering a shop, or even saying excuse me, always start with a friendly «bonjour».
Skipping this simple greeting may come across as impolite, even if your intentions are good. It’s a small gesture that shows respect and will often make people much more willing to help you.
2. Vous Matters More Than You Think
In France, using «vous» instead of «tu» is a sign of respect.
With strangers, colleagues, shop assistants, doctors, or older people, vous is the standard. Switching to tu usually happens only after someone suggests it.
If you’re unsure which one to use, always choose vous. It’s better to be too polite than too familiar.
3. French Supermarkets Can Feel Completely Different
Don’t expect supermarkets to be organized like they are in your home country.
Products may be displayed differently, aisles can follow a different logic, and even small details might surprise you.
One thing that immediately caught my attention was the price labels. In Italy, I’m used to seeing them below the products. In France, they’re often placed above the shelves instead. It seems like a tiny detail, but during your first shopping trip it can be surprisingly confusing.
4. Keep Your Voice Down in Public
If you’re used to speaking loudly, you may want to lower your voice a little.
On public transport, in waiting rooms, or inside shops, people generally speak quietly and avoid drawing attention to themselves.
Talking loudly isn’t forbidden, of course, but it may be considered impolite and someone might even ask you to be quieter.
5. Don’t Be Surprised If You’re Asked to Open Your Bag
In many supermarkets and stores, staff may ask to check your backpack or shopping bag before you leave.
If it’s your first time, it can feel a little unusual. However, it’s a common security practice in many places.
Just stay calm, cooperate, and don’t take it personally.
6. Watch Out for Speed Cameras
If you plan to drive in France, pay close attention to speed limits.
The country has a large number of speed cameras, both fixed and mobile, and fines can arrive even for small speeding offences.
Driving carefully will save you money—and stress.
7. Sundays Are Quiet
Sunday has a different rhythm in France.
Many shops, supermarkets, and local businesses are closed or operate with limited hours. Instead, people often spend the day relaxing with family, enjoying nature, visiting local markets, or simply slowing down.
My advice? Do your grocery shopping before Sunday, especially if you need something important.
8. Be Prepared for Strikes and Demonstrations
Strikes are a normal part of life in France.
Public transport, schools, government offices, or other services may occasionally be affected, sometimes with little notice.
Before travelling or attending an important appointment, it’s always worth checking for any disruptions.
9. School French Isn’t Everyday French
Many people arrive in France thinking they speak French… until they hear locals talking to each other.
Everyday conversations often include slang, abbreviations, expressions and even VERLAN —a form of French slang where syllables are reversed.
At first, you may feel like you’ve never studied French in your life. Don’t worry—this is completely normal, and you’ll gradually become familiar with it.
10. Don’t Assume Your Dog Can Go Everywhere
If you’re moving to France with a dog, be prepared for different rules depending on where you live.
For example, dogs are generally not allowed inside supermarkets, except for guide dogs and certified assistance dogs. Many beaches also prohibit dogs during the summer season, and access to public spaces, cafés or other venues may vary depending on local regulations or the business owner’s policy.
Before heading out with your dog, it’s always worth checking the rules in advance to avoid any unpleasant surprises.
💡 Maya’s Tip
Don’t compare everything to your home country.
Some things will seem strange at first, while others may even frustrate you. But moving abroad isn’t about finding a place that works exactly like home—it’s about learning a different way of living. The more open-minded and curious you are, the easier your new life in France will become.
